Welp! I’m at the final three Lou Reed songs for the tribute series. I’m having a blast performing these songs for youtube. Could use for more views to those videos but either way… I’m having fun with these songs and they’re getting good feedback too! What are the final three songs for the Lou Reed tribute? I’m not saying as I don’t wanna give out any spoilers this time but they will be big but you may already guess what they could be anyway! I’m hoping the next three songs will get a lot of views as I’m gonna try to make the final three songs as best as possible. I’m gonna concentrate on the singing on them.

After I complete the Lou Reed tribute series… I’ll be off doing covers of other bands/artists.

I would like to cover a song by EBJ at some point… maybe “Ghost Town” or “54 Miles”… I think Adam will be flattered and happy if I did a song by EBJ. I’m sure the band will let me.

Kev

Are you a target of trolls and haters on the world of the internet? Do you get a lot of people writing hateful and spiteful stuff about you online? I know I do. I’m about to explain to you why you do get a lot of haters/trolls and how to handle them.

First off, lets talk about why you do get a lot of haters/trolls. They don’t like you because of the way you write online… they don’t like your honesty or negative postings? Do they make fun of you ’cause you look funny and different? They think you’re weak so they feel the need to pick on you. Those are just a small part of why you get haters and trolls but it’s way more serious than that. The reason that you get a lot of haters/trolls is because I think it’s that they know your web presence is very big online and it’s bothering them. That’s the only reason why I think that is. The bigger your web presence gets… the more haters/trolls you’re gonna get. There’s honestly no reason for any of them to be hating you. They do it in a jealous rage, pretty much. I’ve noticed that people who have a very big web presence usually have a lot of haters. A lot of people with popular youtube channels, they get haters/trolls too. Bands/musicians out there that has big web presences, they’re gonna get haters/trolls. It isn’t you that they don’t like… it’s your popularity that bothers them. That’s what these guys do, you see… they look around for people with big web presences hoping to get more attention to themselves… they try to take their spotlight… that’s what they do it for. Trying to get more attention off of you.

Secondly… about how to handle trolls, haters, negative people or whatever… make sure you have your privacy settings set. Have comments moderated before approving them publicly like I do everywhere online (I don’t do this in facebook ’cause people are usually cool there). If a negative and asshole comment comes in, just ignore it and delete it.

Whenever you see someone bash you online when you have no control of moderating it, they decide to bash you somewhere else… just ignore it completely (or you could try your best to report it). Don’t respond to it at all. Once in a while, I see people in facebook just bash the hell out of me publicly for no reason but I just ignore it and don’t respond. That’s the problem that people have. Responding to people that bash them publicly and it’s bad to do. Best thing to do is just ignore everybody’s bullshit. If you respond to that online bully, they’re just gonna keep at it and things will get a lot worse. The only way to end the drama is just ignore it all, people will get bored of it when they realize that you don’t care and they will stop. This works for me all the time. I used to have a problem of responding to everything that bashed me but I learned from my mistakes over the years.

You need to be tough. Stay above the drama and not care about any of it. There’s nothing wrong with being yourself and being who you wanna be. Just do what you wanna do and say what you wanna say online… and fuck everybody if they don’t like it. Once again, I’ll repeat myself, “You can’t please everybody, the world doesn’t work like that”. You can’t make everybody happy.

When ever people bash me online… it is mostly done “anonymously”. They do it ’cause they don’t want me finding out who they really are but they fail miserably at that ’cause I can immediately tell who they are anyway just by recognizing their writing styles. Their writing styles is very easy to pick up.

I don’t care if anybody hates me or not. Go cry me a river for all I care. That’s the trick there. NOT care about anybody. You are who you are… there is nothing for them to do to change that. If you write stuff online that people don’t like or don’t agree with… just ignore the negative commentary. You have the right to say what you want to say and believe what you want to believe. Don’t let negative people get all over you. That’s what they do it for… they wanna destroy you publicly ’cause they love the attention.

On top of all this, you shouldn’t be upset that you get a lot of haters/trolls. It should be a flattering thing ’cause you wouldn’t be this popular and big online if you didn’t have haters right? Trolls don’t go after people if their online presence don’t matter… they only go after the popular ones. This is pretty much why a lot of local musicians around here don’t like me ’cause it’s bothering them that my web presence is pretty big.

Again, don’t reply to any negative bullshit or bashing… and life on the internet will be much much easier for you. Trust me. It works.

Kev

Ya know, after I told those two women at that show that she was either “gorgeous” or “beautiful” to her face… it made me feel real good after I said it. It made me realize that women are easy to talk to and not tough as you think. I need to do that more often. If I think a woman is gorgeous or beautiful… I need to tell it to her face more instead of telling her on the computer. If you tell it to her face, women will respect and appreciate you for your confidence that you had the balls to say it to her. It lets me know that I’m heading to the right direction and already getting pretty far when it comes to being successful with women. It was a pretty awesome feeling to make women smile like that.

I wouldn’t recommend telling a woman she’s “hot” right away. They don’t mind, “hot”. They like being told that too but I learned women like the words “gorgeous” or “beautiful” more. The word, “stunning” works too. You tell her she’s “gorgeous” or “beautiful” with confidence — not trying to sound nervous or anything — she’ll be all over ya before you know it. Tell it to her like you really mean it. You smile when you say it too (which I did).

I really need to talk to women more and it is getting worked on. I don’t really wanna meet a woman off the internet or at the bar/club ’cause my goal is to work on the confidence of meeting women at public places like the gym, the store or where ever. When trying to get dating advice about women… people would try to tell me what topics you can and can’t talk about to women. I disagree. From what I’ve learned about women is that a lot of ’em are willing to talk about any topic. Whatever you wanna talk about to them, they won’t care. Don’t listen to those dating gurus in youtube ’cause they’re full of shit sometimes.

I really need to improve my social skills and stop being a coward. Need to make more guy friends too to hang out with and that’s also getting worked on. Need to change my life and improve myself.

I write this stuff on my blog as a way to remind myself that I need to get it done. The dating scene may not be as hard as a lot of people make it out to be. Treat women with respect, confidence and anything is possible. Some people don’t think I can do it but I’m pretty sure I can get myself hooked up with a beautiful and attractive woman. Watch me. I can do it.

Kev

Whenever somebody famous and iconic dies… fans & supporters will grieve positively for that celebrity online but like always there’s going to be some people who will come around and talk about a bunch of negative bullshit. They would say negative stuff like: “Why care about a famous rich person when there are more important things to worry about in this world?”, “Nobody cared for that celebrity until they died”, “I don’t know that person so I don’t grieve for people I don’t know”, etc. Blah blah blah… you see it everytime in facebook and everywhere else.

I just never understood it. I think it’s because they are sick of seeing it everywhere in the media and sick of people posting about it in facebook/twitter or where ever so they feel the need to speak out. Maybe they’re just jealous and they feel the need to speak out for more attention… that could be it.

Whenever somebody famous dies and people start talking a bunch of negative crap saying how they don’t care and stuff… I just ignore it all.

The reason that the media reports about celebrity deaths ’cause it is actually important to do and everyone needs to know. Especially the rest of Hollywood, family/friends, and fans. These famous people provide the entertainment for all of us. If they just died and nothing was reported about them in the media at all, it’ll get people wondering. They have to let people know that they had passed away. It’s just the right thing to do.

I may not know these celebrities and don’t have to but they do provide the entertainment for us and they are human beings like us… so I feel bad for any good human being who dies. Doesn’t matter if I’m a fan of that famous person or not. We’re all human. We’re all gonna go at some point so while we are still alive, we should show support and compassion.

Anybody who talks shit about a famous person’s death is pretty much jealous… that’s the only reason why I think people talk shit. They speak out hoping to spark some controversy and get people going.

I may not be a big fan of Paul Walker either but I did show my support and compassion anyways since I’m a fan of Hollywood and film.

Don’t be negative. Think positive and show some respect.

Kev