Without naming names, I have way too many people thinking they can change me until I please them.You know those kind of folks who don’t like you, they will let you know about it? If they don’t like you, they’ll tell you what you can and can’t say. They’ll tell you what to do and all that stuff. They’ll try to control you. Manipulate you. People will complain and whine about how bad of a person you are until you change your personality that pleases them.

My advice is don’t ever change for anyone. I never did. Never will. I will always be the same guy no matter how many dislikes me out there. If you continue to be yourself, ignore everyone’s bullshit and drama… the right people will come around and love you for that. If you don’t change for anybody, people will respect and admire you for that. That’s how you make the right friends.

People like to tell me that I’m a bad person as if everyone in the world will think the same. Not true. I have quite a lot of cool and caring people in my life. I have caring people who don’t take me seriously and personally. Some people make the mistake that a lot of people think I’m a horrible blogger. I’ve been wrongfully accused of being delusional and insane like if I haven’t heard that stuff before.

When it comes to criticism of my online blogging or social networking… it’s only a matter of opinion. I always get mixed responses by people. You either love me or hate me. Not everybody dislikes my blogging and social networking. There are people that enjoy everything I do online and there are some who agree with most of what I say. So just because one person say that I’m horrible, doesn’t mean everyone else will agree.

If other people say that you’re a bad person, the last thing you want to do is listen to them. Ignore their bullshit. Continue to be you.Continue to be yourself and people will love and respect you for that. That’s how you make new friends and fans, just being yourself.

Agree with it or not, I have quite a following of my online web presence. Not everyone dislikes my politics discussions and not everyone dislikes my anti-Obama stuff. I have people telling me that I do a good job on this stuff.

Like I said, the response toward my blogging and social networking is always a mixed bag. I always get a mix of haters and loyal supporters and I’m fine with both.

There’s nothing wrong with being controversial or brutally honest. If that’s how you wanna be, people will respect you for that.

I’m not changing a damn thing for anyone. People find my online blogging or social networking offensive? Good. That’s what I do. That’s what a blogger’s job is supposed to do. If you’re not offended yet, just wait. I’ve noticed over the years of my blogging and social networking that people won’t reply to my posts unless they disagree with something. Nobody wants to get into a back and forth friendly conversation. The only time people reply is if I post something people don’t like. People usually ignore my topics about movies or music but I seem to get people going with my politics and sometimes people reply to my local music discussions if people disagree with it. I don’t like the way this is to be honest with you but it is what it is. This is the internet, people are crazy as hell on here.

If people are trying to tell you how to be what they want you to be, don’t listen to their bullshit. Don’t change for anyone at all. Not even to your closest family and friends. Just continue to live life, be happy and keep on keepin’ on. If you continue to be you, people will want to be your friend for that. More people will find you interesting.

Kev