You should check out, Jad T. Jones’s website: http://www.how2getagirlfriend.org.

For those single guys out there struggling to get women…

This guy is the only dating coach on the internet you should be taking advice from. He’s really good and seems to know what he’s talking about. I bet this dude gets a lot of ladies! HA!

I’ll publicly confess that I didn’t have much dating experience. I dated a few women throughout my life but nothing good came out of them. I’ve also had plenty of occasions where women seemed to be interested in talking to me but admittedly, I never went for her — out of fear of women. I’ve also had plenty of crushes on women over the years who had no love for me in return… partly because it was my fault ’cause I never knew much about the dating scene in my life. I think the reason is that I never really had anyone in my life teach me how to pick up women. I am learning about women now and trying to understand them.

I am learning that getting a girlfriend won’t fall in your lap. You have to do the work and it’s your responsibility to get her yourself.

You know how when I talk about how I dance with women and talk to them at wedding parties and at band shows? Well, that’s just me trying to work on my confidence with them. Just practicing my social skills with women and trying to understand them.

I just read Jad’s 35 page free Ebook on how to get a girlfriend on his website, and it certainly woke me up on a lot of things. I’ll definitely try his method on dating. His free Ebook is recommended reading too.

I like how he says it’s okay to talk to any woman you want. I like how he says it’s okay to tell her she’s hot, gorgeous or beautiful right away and I like how he says it’s okay to ask her out right away. That’s another problem I had with the dating scene. I’ve been friends with women before but never had the guts to ask any of them out. He said the secret to getting the woman you want is that you talk to as many women as possible and he said about 7 of them won’t be interested and maybe like 1 or 2 women will be interested. That’s the deal here… meet as many women as you possibly can until you find the one who will actually like you.

I gotta knock it off and grow up! I can go out there in town right now if I wanted and try to talk to as many women as possible. It shouldn’t be that hard to get a girl at all and this guy is making it seem real easy! Some say I can’t get a hot and beautiful woman? Watch me prove you wrong. 😉

Kev

Some of you may ask… how does the Brock do it? How does he make his web presence online so recognizable and well-known? I get these questions sometimes. I’m about to explain how. Some would accuse me of craving for attention but that is pretty much not true. I think the secret to making your online web-presence recognizable and popular is… there is no secret. Just being yourself is all that matters. With your online web presence — whether it will be your blog, twitter, facebook, etc. — if you simply be yourself, people will be interested in you and will follow everything you do. Why do people follow me online?

Well for a number of reasons… my online web presence has always had a mixed reaction. You either love me or hate me. I’ve always had both supportive fans and haters.

People probably follow me for these simple reasons:

• They find my rants entertaining as hell
• They appreciate my honesty
• Some like to make fun of me and laugh at the things I say (that’s what the haters do)

Some like to mistakenly think that I like to be negative and offensive intentionally just to get more attention for myself and boost my ego. Not true either. You see, I’m the type of guy who likes to speak my mind. If there’s something on my mind… I’m gonna say it. I can never tell if I am being negative and offensive or not… I usually let the people tell me that stuff. People usually let me know if I’m going way out of line. Make no mistake about it, though… I don’t think I’m right on everything I say or do. I will admit that I’m wrong on things and I regret some of the stuff I said in the past but for the most part, I usually never back down on my honesty. If I have an honest opinion on something… I usually stick it with it no matter how many people get pissed off. Once in a while, I will apologize for being offensive on certain things but it rarely happens.

I just can’t help it. What I am online. I’m just trying to be me, ya know? A lot of people online are afraid to be themselves. I’m not.

The things I do online… I’m just trying to keep people entertained as best as possible. I try to inspire people and entertain them with my thoughts on different topics like movies, music, fitness, politics, etc. The things I say online were never meant to be offensive, they were meant to entertain others so if you don’t take my writing seriously, you would enjoy it more. I don’t do this for myself at all. My goal has always been that I wanted people to look at the reality side of things and I think my goal is working quite well. That’s why I continue to do what I do.

Of course, when people disagree with me and have different opinions on stuff… that’s when I sometimes get a public backlash on things like with my rants on controversial subjects like the President Obama stuff, gay marriage, and such as those. I really never back down on my opinions on things. Why should you? You shouldn’t have to change your opinion just because so many people get all over you, right? Does everything that comes out of your mouth have to please every single person? In this day and age with the way people communicate online, it seems so.

Anyway, I never saw how my online writing was negative or offensive. I try to write as polite and kind as possible. I try my best to keep things civilized. Like I said before if I get too offensive and out of line… I let the people let me know. So I’m definitely not innocent in everything.

As for my rants on the local music scene, same thing. When I rant about local music, those posts were never meant to put down the scene in a negative direction as some say. I’m only trying to help the music scene. Try to make it better. I’m trying to inspire other musicians around here to change and try to get better. Looking at their attitudes, their professionalism, their musicianship, etc. Musicians want to believe I’m trying to upset them but not really. I like to look after my fellow musicians around this area. I’m a big music fan and supporter of local musicians… I just want to see them get better ’cause I feel that a lot of them have no clue with music.

So to those looking to make your online web presence more recognizable and well-known. If you want more people reading your blogs, facebook, twitter. Just be yourself. That’s pretty much the only way. Make your online web presence more human. You don’t have to use the internet just to promote your musical projects and other things. If you be more human and let people know that you are alive and real, being yourself is the way to go. Reply to everyone who writes to you, be more personal to people, and see what happens from there.

Why do you think so many famous celebrities have well-known web presences like say Amanda Palmer, perfect example? Her web presence is big because she likes to be herself. The same with professional wrestler, The Ultimate Warrior. The same with that Star Trek guy, George Takei. Many other celebrities have recognizable web-presences.

I’m not as big as those people yet but I don’t care… I like what I do now. So thanks for reading both supporters and haters. It means a lot!

Kev

Jad T. Jones is good stuff. The dude seems to know what he’s talking about! This guy talks about how you should not be all creepy and just be normal when picking up women. If you be normal — all the time — then you will be more attractive to women and they will be all over you before you know it. I agree that trying to be the “pick up artist” and trying too hard seem to turn women off. I admittedly made those mistakes before. I’ll be sure to never do it again and follow this dude’s advice. Just treat her like a person and not a sex object.

Check out this dude’s channel, it’s entertaining stuff.

I respect this guy ’cause he seems to be one of the few dating coaches who gives out free advice on the internet.

Anybody can be great at picking up women… it doesn’t matter who you are or what you look like. You just gotta know what to do and do it right!

Kev

A lot of men like to blame women on how tough they make this dating thing. It’s not the women that are making the dating world tough… it’s us men that is the big problem. We just don’t know what to do and don’t know how to handle the women.

I’ve been watching a lot of youtube videos from different dating coaches who give you advice on dating and picking up women. I’ve been watching videos from both male and female dating coaches. Some of their advice is really good and helpful, they make it look easy — however, some of the dating advice is just a bunch of bullshit.

I guess, I’ll publicly confess that I am kind of shy around women but the confidence is getting worked on as you can clearly see. I’m talking to women a lot more these days and feeling more comfortable around them. They’re just people like us. If you don’t try so hard and treat them like people, you can get women to like you easily.  These are the things that I’ve learned, anyway. Confidence is key to getting a date with women — there’s no other way around it. I just gotta learn to have balls and just talk to her if I see a pretty looking girl that I think I’ll like. I am learning that women won’t bite. I am learning that a lot of them like being told they’re beautiful, hot or gorgeous. I tell them that stuff in facebook all of the time that she’s beautiful, hot or gorgeous — I just gotta work on telling her that stuff to her face, in person.

I’m getting older. Almost 40 and I think I’m ready to settle in with a nice lady at some point.

Some people mistakenly believe that I can’t get a beautiful and attractive woman but I disagree. I learned that beautiful women would date any guy as long as you make her feel that she’s beautiful and if she knows that you can be confident and all that stuff. As long as you know what to do on how to hook up with women… you can hook up to any woman you want. Treat her like a human being, anything is possible. Just don’t rush things, play it cool and all will be good! I learned that giving her nice compliments is a perfect way to get a conversation started with her. Don’t wanna be talking to her about yourself… you wanna learn more about her.

Anyway, I don’t care to get a hot and beautiful woman. They would be nice, I wouldn’t mind an attractive woman in my life but honestly, looks doesn’t really matter to me. I wouldn’t date an ugly woman but a normal looking woman is just fine for me. I just want a woman with a good personality. Somebody with similar interests and have things in common. Somebody to talk to.

I don’t think I’m that bad looking of a guy. I think I’m pretty decent looking and women seem to enjoy being around me, anyway, so that’s a sign that they might think I’m handsome looking after all!

I don’t think I’ll hook up with a woman from online. The goal is to have balls and find a woman in person; a little more locally in my area. Again, I think the bar/club scene is a terrible way to pick up women. There are other good places to meet women at like the gym, the library, the grocery store or anywhere in town. I want to meet a woman who isn’t drunk.

I’ll admit that I am terrible at the dating thing and gotta learn to do it better. If I have more confidence and know what to do, I could start dating women like crazy!

I wanna get married myself and have kids someday. It’s all about finding the right one for me.

Kev