I’m real sick of people being nice to you and friendly to you in person but when you talk to this person online… they are so mean to you all the time. They claim that they like you in person but they don’t like you online but you know it’s a freakin’ lie. You can’t separate both. The online world and the real world are both the same so when you bash someone online that means you are bashing them as a person altogether. So therefor, when you say that you don’t like this person online, that mean you don’t like this person at all. There’s no difference between the online world and the offline world.

The reason that some people are nice to you in person but mean to you online is ’cause simply put, they are cowards. They are scared to say that stuff to your face.

You see, folks, when you decide to bash someone online or call them out, we don’t ever forget these things. We are human. We have feelings and have different emotions. Sometimes we do take how others treat us very seriously.

When you publicly use facebook, twitter, wordpress blogs to call someone out you can’t expect this person to be nice to you when you run into him in person somewhere.

For example, if some guy that I know is bashing me in facebook or a wordpress blog and if I happen to run into this guy in person somewhere like at a party or a local band show, you can’t expect me to be friendly with this guy after him bashing me online. I’m not saying that I would react violently ’cause I’m not a violent guy but I would be violent for self-defense only, however. Even if I won’t be violent to the guy who bashed me online, I still won’t be friendly to him. I won’t forget how he treated me online, I’ll probably lose my temper and tell him to, “Get the Fuck Out Of My Face” and would have no problem saying that.

Some of these guys especially from people that I know who bash me online are just scared to say these things to my face… that’s why they do it. They’re pussies. All of ’em.

Kev

I get negative commentary toward my blogging everyday. I get it all the time. I’ve been getting negative commentary and opinions toward my online writing for years so I think I’m pretty used to it by now. That’s the thrill of blogging. The mixed responses and mixed reactions. Some of it will be positive and some negative. I always get mixed responses. That’s the kind of response you wanna get with your blogging. If you’re getting nothing but positive responses or no response at all then you’re doing something wrong.

When you have a blog and getting people all fired up and going… don’t ever make the mistake to think that you’re doing something wrong. You’re not. You’re all cool, brotha. Getting people all fired up and pissed off is the way to do it. That’s how you become a good blogger.

Don’t ever change for anybody if they don’t like who you are or if they don’t like how you write on your blog. When you give yourself up and apologize to those you may have offended… they will declare victorious. You don’t ever wanna do that. Never ever ever. It is your mind. Your opinions. Your thoughts. Your life. Don’t allow people to think they have complete control of it. I made a promise to myself that I will never let people control my thoughts if they don’t agree with me.

The things people always say about your blogging is not always true. It’s just opinion. There will be those who will never take everything you write seriously and would actually enjoy it.

Like I said before, I just do this for entertainment and just for fun… whether I get a good or a bad response… so I don’t really give a fuck.

A blog is a great tool to say what you want and that’s what it’s for.

I understand that people are gonna get upset and offended at my topics about politics, local music, and women but if you get offended that easily, then you must be a sensitive person.

People usually get offended at everything I write. No matter what it is. It’s crazy I know. There are pretty much no rules here except no attacking or bashing the blog owner. I know the terms of service of wordpress pretty well so they respect freedom of speech here well. That’s why I have chosen to come to wordpress years ago.

I don’t read negative commentary ’cause I don’t care what people have to say about my writing. I don’t read other blogs written about me and I try not to even read the comments.

Who cares if others get offended. That’s their problem, not yours or mine.

Kev

I have been a part of the music scene in Albany for many years so I have seen how it changed over the years. There is a huge difference between the music scene from the past and to today’s music scene. In the past, it used to be that it was mostly cover bands becoming established and getting the spotlight. In the past, there were also original acts becoming established but the well-known musicians used to be adults. These days established musicians and bands are pretty young. Established musicians who are between their 20’s and 30’s years of ages. It’s weird how the aging of popular bands have changed over the years isn’t it???

I partly blame that on the internet and garbage reality shows like “American Idol”, “America’s Got Talent”, “The Voice”, etc. I know that most bands around here are pretty young.

It seems that the young musicians around here have it pretty easy for them. They can get popularity and success with no problem while the older bands continue to struggle in the scene. The older bands try to get the same success the younger ones are getting for the older bands it is tough. It takes the older bands a long time to get success and popularity while it seems quicker for the young ones.

Why are younger bands becoming more successful and established than the older ones??? Well, the answer to that one is easy. The younger bands is what people around here wanna see. Most of them are young and good looking. They are more fun to see live than the older bands. So therefor, that is part of what draws people in to see the younger bands.

While it’s a good thing that young bands are getting success and popularity… at the same time, it can get quite annoying.

A lot of young bands don’t really understand how the music community works. A lot of ’em are not careful with the gigs they choose. They fall for pay to play scams easily and they jump at every opportunity they can get… playing the “yes” man. Saying yes to everything that throws at ’em. A lot of ’em don’t really understand how to run gigs smoothly and professionally. They really don’t understand how to be professionals like they think they do. Some of them feel the need to go through garbage competitions like Battle of the Bands and other radio contests in order to get somewhere when they didn’t need to.

In other words, the younger bands have a lot of learning to do when they want to play music on a professional level. It’s a tough world out there. They think they can handle it but I think they can’t.

I’m glad for these bands wanting to do their thing and get themselves out there but they have to be careful with themselves. For one thing, they have to be careful on how they treat people ’cause a lot of them make the mistake that they can treat people how they want to since they are so big and successful. Sure, bands don’t like other people but the professional thing to do is they should just keep their negative opinions to themselves and be friendly to the person anyway.

Young bands think they have “it” but they have a lot of learning to do. Tons of it.

The older bands who have been playing around the area for years know what they’re doing and they understand things ’cause they’ve been doing it a long time. The young bands should get advice and help from them.

I’m not trying to knock the young bands. I’m just being realistic. Some of you might even agree with everything I said. I’ve had my share of gigging around the scene myself so I have every right to bring this up.

Kev